What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us !!!

            A great approach was shown by Sir OLIVER WENDEEL HOLMES Sr. to the entire mankind in the 18^th century. This sentence by him, gave many living beings a new way to think. He was admired not by bunch but by flock.

                        “To err is human”

            It is said that mistakes are part of the human nature. Mistakes are meant to be done by the humans else their progress might be hampered.

            But again, the mistakes should be felt from inside. Your within/conscience should be strong enough to accept it and even correct it. You should not be avoiding it and making at a tomorrow’s work. Because tomorrow might never come. You might not get a second chance. Ya, might be, the next day can be the end of world !!! If you can correct it from within than your future is very less to worry about.

            Make your within so strong and logical that no mistake can even upset you for a longer time. Build your attitude like – “Yes – Yes, I did a try and failed but I learnt from it and will make it the next time !!!” This only comes from within. And “Past” spells short than “present” even so don’t worry abt that... If yu succeed in doing this than old HOLMES is with you and you proving him right.

            Feed your inside in this way and then you are doing a miracle. Because neither your past nor your future is dark when you are the bright sun from inside.

            Ya definitely, this is not as easy as giving up or developing a wrong approach but my friend, you live in a competitive world. You have to be this if you seek the best. The first step to begin would be to regret, only for a while and to forgive yourself from within but with a promise of either making it right if possible or definitely not to repeat it in the next chance. This thing will really make you feel better. Forgiving yourself restarts your system.

           

Regretting – It helps in the process of progressing but overdose of it is a threatening one. You should regret for a day or two if it’s a huge failure but then from 3^rd day you should move on. Your within should forgive you and then roll again with you. You have to let it go. This makes your conscience experienced, experience worth a cost. 

            “You already have a ‘NO’, then why not to try for ‘YES’!!”

You are already regretting it then why not to forgive yourself with a promise of doing better. This type of “Let-Go” attitude makes your within more bright. Your inside is the main thing you should be cared about and not the surrounding. If you are a ‘YES, I can’ from within than no one can deny it.

Many legendary personalities like SWAMI VIVEKANAND, who was youth during old hood of Sir Holmes, considered it this line as a golden ray and was able to come out of mistakes of childhood and bring glory in the next life. Even Gandhiji had a similar type of approach and had been a great revolutionary after being a street thief in childhood.

Keep your inside calm and peaceful. Don’t be hyper in any type of situation and no over reacting. Make your within worth a solution and then your past would be ‘Remarkable’ and future ‘Cherish able’. Again, ‘future’ spells short then ‘present’ !!!

Don’t let your within be like a common moth, clinging around a street lamp but set your heart free and take a leap of faith towards the shinning round thing. Even if you don’t reach there, you will be remembered for trying. Set your within free and it will lighten up your future.

The efficient way of keeping your within calm is to be yourself. You and your conscience are unique in this world. Yes, might be, as per the saying, there can be 7 similar faces but not inside. Make it act as it want to and not as per the world wants. Because it knows how to make your future bright so let it do its work. If you really seek happiness than influence your actions by the thought if your within. The combination of this will make you sail the ship far ahead than others.

So if you are keenly interested in making your future bright than easy way of doing it is to make your INSIDE bright at the very first opportunity. And then truly, the matters of past and the glories of future are very tiny in compared to the white light which will lie inside you !!! Trust the words of Sir Holmes and he will definitely help you in trusting your dreams !!!

-      Sagar…….